Confident girl has logic to control emotional impulses. Needy girl lacks this control. Scale runs from purely emotional girl to Vulcan girl. Girl either has logic to control emotions or doesn't. Resultant behavior is logic-to-emotion ratio. Needy: emotional, weak. Confident: aloof, hard to read, though she slips intoxicated when logic disappears. For marriage prospects, a girl with emotional intelligence and logic balance makes better long-term partner than purely emotional needy type.

Needy girl calls when she shouldn't. No impulse control whatsoever. Confident girl pings email, sometimes text. Gives her time to think. Needy has trouble playing the game, finds it stifling and cold. Confident approaches like a guy using intense logic. Needy constantly apprehensive about your feelings. Confident wonders if she could do better. Both are apprehensive. One shows it, other hides it. For marriage, understanding this dynamic helps identify which type you're dealing with

Needy busts out first "I love you" without thinking. Confident does cost-benefit analysis, waits for guy first. Needy easily hurt by criticism, obsesses over it. Confident takes it stride, uses for self improvement. Needy goes out of her way pleasing you. Confident waits for commitment sign before emotional attachment. All about self preservation. If confident girl isn't apprehensive, she's just not into you. These patterns reveal her true investment level and marriage potential with you.

I make educated guesses on what girls think based on observable behavior. Of course that's not perfect strategy. But patterns emerge revealing her logic-to-emotion ratio. A girl constantly seeking reassurance is emotional. One maintaining independence is logical. For marriage candidates, watch how she handles criticism and commitment signals. Logical girls protect themselves. Emotional girls reveal everything immediately. Neither is inherently better, just different for long-term relationship